Leading Children through Action
It is clear to me that the book of James says it is up to us. In James chapter 2 we read, “What good is it if you have faith but do not have works?”
How can we expect young people, our children- God’s children, to be a part of the church, to grow in their faith, to have a saving relationship with God if we are not doing the work it takes to make this happen today.
What good is it to say, “oh things would be so much better of if young people came to church” or, “if only young people today had faith and morals” but we aren’t willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen. We aren’t willing to do whatever it takes to reach out, bring them in and help them.
We can complain about all of their behaviors, we can complain about their disrespect, we can complain about their absence from the church not to mention music, movies and other media but if we aren’t willing to be the agents of change nothing will be different. In his book Helping Our Children Grow in Faith, Robert Keely shares in his research that one of the key problems we have is “adults are not willing to work hard enough to make worship accessible for children.” In other words, we don’t want to sacrifice our wants, desires and conveniences to welcome the child.
I am convinced that our faith and our desires to pass that faith on to the next generation are absolutely dead and meaningless if we are not willing to take the action necessary to do something about it.
What about you? Are you doing whatever it takes to make sure the church you attend is wide open to the young in your community?
“So faith by itself, if it has no works, is dead.”


March 15, 2008 at 8:12 pm
Amen! I see people in the church all the time shaking their heads about “these kids today” but then are upset when “these kids” aren’t dressed well enough for worship or their choirs are “taking the place” of adult worship choirs. It’s not easy (and sometimes not even fun or fulfilling) to reach out and do what it takes to include young people in church. It does take work and persistence. And sometimes it even means being in conflict with others over it.
I get SO angry (yep…angry) when older adults and long-time Christians bemoan the fact that there’s nothing going on in the church for them. It’s like they’ve been forgotten. All of the focus is on the kids. Well, YES!!! It’s because the older folks are the ones who HAVE the faith (or are supposed to) and now it’s their responsibility to be GIVING and not even thinking about RECEIVING. Why are there so many people in the church searching for what can be done to benefit them? Have they forgotten that they’re not supposed to be acting this way? Or did they never learn it in the first place?
What’s the answer? Is it our fault? Have we forgotten them? Do they need to be invited into ministry?
March 27, 2008 at 9:30 pm
You raise some great issues and questions Lynn. I think a great deal of the issues is related to our consumer mentality at church. Even beyond this however, is a lack of “benefit” that people see in investing in children. It is a long term investment that benefits the larger Kingdom but maybe not our individual church.