Creative Children’s Ministry
How do you support creativity in your children’s ministry? I came across a list the other day about phrases that crush creativity. Here is a selection of the phrases that I hear used a lot in churches with regard to children’s minstry. Take a look at the list. Are any of these used in your children’s ministry? Do they hinder the dreams and vision God has given you for your ministry? The key is not to let our language stand in the way of the creative vision God is revealing.
PHRASES THAT CRUSH THE SPIRIT OF CREATIVITY
We tried that before.
It costs too much.
That’s not my job.
They’re too busy to do that.
We don’t have the time.
Not enough help.
It’s too radical a change.
The staff will never buy it.
We don’t have the authority.
Let’s get back to reality
That’s not our problem.
I don’t like the idea.
I’m not saying you’re wrong but…
Now’s not the right time.
It isn’t in the budget.
Can’t teach an old dog new tricks.
Let’s give it more thought.
Not that again.
Where’d you dig that one up?
We did alright without it before.
It’s never been tried.
Let’s put that one on the back burner for now.
Let’s form a committee.
It won’t work in our place.
I don’t see the connection.
Let’s all sleep on it.
It can’t be done.
It’s too much trouble to change.
It won’t pay for itself.
It’s impossible.
We’ve always done it this way.
Don’t rock the boat.
Has anyone else ever tried it?
Let’s look into it further.
Quit dreaming.
If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.
It’s too much work.
That is quite a list. Are there any you would add to the list?


November 2, 2007 at 12:06 pm
Okay…here comes a potentially controversial response….”Let’s pray about it.” I’m a firm believer in the power and need for prayer to go to God for direction and purpose. I pray about everything! However, I often think too many times we use it for an excuse for not having to DO anything. Are we really going to God for answers and guidance or is it just a smoke screen to delay taking action? A very wise friend of mine says, “Pray to God and row toward shore.” That sums it up for me. What does anyone else think?
November 2, 2007 at 1:34 pm
Lynn,
You raise a good point. Certainly the time for prayer and discernment is extremely important. However, if indeed the desire is for that to take place, then I would think that process should begin to take place immediately and the person who said, “Let’s pray about it” would lead a prayer right then and there to begin the process and there would be a preset discernment time line that everyone agreed to so that things could move forward. That way, prayer is not used as an excuse to not do something or avoid dealing with something.
November 3, 2007 at 5:31 pm
“go slow” - I find that though this is sometimes appropriate, some churches apply it to EVERY situation/new idea. I think sometimes it’s an indication that people are putting limits on what God can do.
November 17, 2007 at 1:58 am
Darlene,
You are so right! It’s like everyone is being SO careful about everything…where’s the faith?