Britney Spears…a Prodigal Daughter?
How should we respond to the lives of our “lost” sons and daughters?
A recent article by David Kuo in The Christian Post talks about his multiple contacts with Britney Spears and ponders whether or not she is the prodigal daughter. In the article, Kuo says, “I wonder if she’s looked at the pictures of her onstage kissing Madonna and writhing around on the floor and felt much as the prodigal son felt when he found himself lying in a pig sty. Britney’s sty may be different – more luxe and less slop – but the self-loathing, hopeless destination is the same.”
In Luke 15: 11-32, we see how the son who lived a life full of nothing but earthly pleasures falls into such complete despair and hopelessness that he nervously returns home hoping that he will not be cast out. Instead of being cast out, he finds a rejoicing over the fact that he has left his outrageous behavior behind and is ready to be a part of the family. Kuo puts forth that perhaps Britney has finally become so disgusted with her life that she has changed her looks and checked into rehab so as to go back home to who she once was.
We don’t know how this will all end for Britney Spears. I am sure there are pressures from all sides in her life to be who others want her to be. However, this article by David Kuo reminds me that in the arena of our churches, we are to welcome those prodigals who are coming home and searching for meaning, purpose and belonging. Their behavior might have been outrageous, their looks and actions might indicate self-loathing. But if they are searching for forgiveness and love, are we ready to be the loving parent and offer it to them in the name of Christ? In LOGOS, we believe that as much as it might offend our senses, they still deserve to be treated as children of God and helped along the road to restoration. So what do we do with the prodigals, welcome them or tell them to come back when they are just like us?
Then again, in the eyes of God who isn’t a prodigal?


March 1, 2007 at 9:17 pm
Last night at LOGOS, one of our teenagers brought a friend (looked like a boyfriend by their “closeness.”). He was dressed all in black and had a lip piercing. He was also very quiet. I sat down next to them, introduced myself and asked his name and high school. He was very polite. We were watching “Bruce Almighty” during dinner and part of recreation time.There’s a scene where God (Morgan Freeman) has a conversation with Bruce (Jim Carrey) who has taken on God’s job. God tells him that there are only two rules…he can’t tell anyone that he is God (because he wouldn’t like that kind of attention) AND he can’t mess with free will. The visiting boyfriend turned to the girl from our church and asked, “What is free will?” I strained my ears to listen to her explain it to him and she did an outstanding job! I added that free will also means that God loves us all but he can’t force us to love him back. We each have to make that choice for ourselves. He just thoughtfully nodded.
My point? Well…this young man wouldn’t really fit the mold of a “prodigal son” because he wasn’t “coming back” to us but he would fit the mold of someone you wouldn’t expect to see at a typical youth group meeting and he was asking a very profound question and was very open to the answer. Now I need to go find out how Bible study went!