Kids Still Want In-person Relationships

Despite the rise of e-mail, cell phones and instant messaging, kids prefer face-to-face contact with others

A recent study compiled by Alloy Media & Marketing and Harris Interactive found that the vast majority of “tweens” (8 to 12) prefer to talk with friends in-person. The survey covered 1,487 kids (8 to 1 in a nationwide poll that assessed the group’s communications habits and preferences.

Despite the continuing rise of technology-based communication options, 81% of the “tween” group chose in-person communications over instant messaging, e-mail, and cell phones as their preferred method. This preference was somewhat weaker for the 13 to 18 age group (53%), but did show that face-to-face contact still rules. The study also identified a trend that continues to emerge. That is “online-only” friendships in which kids establish relationships with others whom they never actually meet in person, but with whom they sustain ongoing communication.

At LOGOS, we have always felt that relationships between children and teens – and between kids and adults - represent a timeless and powerful human need. Relationships are also at the center of effective ministry. For ministry leaders, we say, “Make the most out of the in-person time you have with kids. Build trust and establish a sustainable relationship that will allow you to communicate effectively with them in any, and all, ways.”